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MILSPEAK MEMO
V1.2-28-09




RECOLLECTIONS ON VIETNAM
BY F.P. SIEDENTOPF 
 MILSPEAK MEMO CONTRIBUTING COMPILER

It would be presumptuous of me to address lessons learned and lessons ignored by this country during the Vietnam Conflict.  Like all great Monday morning quarterbacks, I can look back on the totality of the era and address what I personally learned.  

I learned that the deepest and longest lasting friendships are forged in the crucible of combat.  A life long bond can be born in a week, face a separation of years, and be renewed with as much intensity and love in the first second of reunion.

I learned that all Marines are green.  There is little difference when it comes to race, religion, politics, age, or even sexual preference when your life depends on those around you.  You share your fear, you share your joy, you sometimes share your blood, and you never leave another Marine behind.  You may walk into hell together, and you may have to carry each other home, but you go together.
 
I learned that fear of combat is universal, and that courage is ignoring that fear.  You ignore fear of combat in the face of  greater fears, the fear of failing your fellow Marines, and your fear of failing to live up to the standards of the Corps.  

 I learned that heroism is nothing more than doing your job, and in extraordinary circumstances that simple truth results in the performance of a heroic action.  If you seek to become a hero, you risk your own death and the death of your fellow Marines to no avail.  Everyone I served with was a hero, a hero who was unheralded perhaps, but only because chance didn’t place him in a starring role.

I learned that peace is better than war.  I also learned that war, or the threat of war, is the surest way to provide for peace.  We must be willing to face threats to our way of life to maintain that way of life.  

It took many, many years for me to be able to articulate these lessons since it wasn’t something I really thought about.  I stayed in the Marine Corps for 30 years, twenty years past my return from my last Vietnam tour.  For me it was a case of continuing on with being a Marine and not reflecting on having been in the Corps.  Sadly to say I’ve aged to the point where those old friends are beginning to succumb to age and old wounds.  Attending funerals and rekindling old friendships with fellow mourners got me thinking about the past and what it means to me in the present.

I was extremely lucky not having to integrate back into the civilian world after Vietnam.  To a degree I was isolated from the derision and contempt which many Americans heaped upon returning Vietnam Veterans.  My world consisted of my family, in which I include my fellow Marines.  During the ensuing 20 years after my last tour, those who opposed the war and those who fought it both mellowed and confrontations became extremely isolated incidents.  

I don’t know if I could have assimilated back into society without coming apart emotionally had I not stayed on active duty.   Those that made the change from firefights on Monday to strolling in the park on Friday, with no wind down period, suffered a great deal and still do.  I do know that I adopted alcohol as a crutch for a goodly portion of those twenty years.

What I can’t address is the decades old question as to whether we should have been involved in the continuation of a war that was fought and lost by the French, and which was a continuation of a centuries old revolution against China.  That is a political question which requires a political answer.  Or perhaps it’s a business question that requires a business answer.  It may even be a moral question which requires a moral answer.  I can say my country called and I answered, I’m proud that I did, and I’m even prouder that I didn’t fail my Country and my Corps.

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WOMEN WHO DIED SERVING IN VIETNAM 
LIEUTENANT COLONEL ANNIE RUTH GRAHAM, AGE 51, VETERAN OF WWII & KOREA

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WOMEN IN THE MARINE CORPS
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“THE THINGS THEY CARRIED”: AN ANALYSIS
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Sunday, November 30, 2008

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